Why it took me 22 years to include an accent mark in my last name

• He told me it became a burden to correct documents and records that —unintentionally or intentionally— removed it.

My story: I didn't start using an accent mark in my last name until I was 22.

Context: There's no accent mark on my birth certificate, but I adopted it after a relative created a family history book tracing the Bojórquez lineage in Guatemala to early-1800s Spain.

• Taking Spanish classes in college also made me realize its importance in the language.

Why it matters … to me: I'm proud of my Mexican and Guatemalan heritage, and I want to keep the accent mark that's been used in my family for more than 200 years.

• It also helps inform people how to pronounce my last name and where to place the emphasis.

Yes, but: I've constantly found myself fighting for its place when applying for jobs and setting up social media accounts because it's recognized on computers as a "special character," adjacent to an asterisk or question mark.

• Some non-Hispanic people I've interacted with in higher education or professional settings think it's optional.

The bottom line: It may be tricky to type it on a keyboard, but that shouldn't stop people from using them.