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America's youth sports boom is quietly rewriting Sunday mornings, turning the family calendar into a competition between pews and playing fields.

Why it matters: For generations, churches helped organize American family life around a shared weekly ritual. Youth sports are increasingly filling that role on Sundays.

The big picture: The U.S. has undergone one of its fastest religious shifts in modern history, marked by churches closing and a rapid increase in the religiously unaffiliated. Youth sports are one of the less visible forces driving that broader cultural change.

• As it's boomed into a multibillion-dollar industry, more games are moving to Sundays, something less common a generation ago.
• "The idea of missing church for sports is just assumed," Linda Flanagan, author of "Take Back the Game: How Money and Mania Are Ruining Kids' Sports — and Why It Matters," tells Axios. "It's just not even a consideration anymore."

How it works: Across basketball, baseball, softball, volleyball and soccer, many weekend tournaments use Saturday for pool or preliminary play and Sunday for elimination rounds and championships.

State of play: The youth-sports industrial complex is rapidly commercializing, fueled by private equity, massive tournament complexes and the normalization of out-of-state travel teams.

Zoom in: On game and practice days, the average sports parent spends 3 hours, 23 minutes on things like driving, watching, washing uniforms, preparing meals and communicating with coaches.

• Families are spending heavily, too: The average sports family spent $1,016 on a child's primary sport in 2024, up 46% from 2019, according to Aspen Institute's Project Play.

Between the lines: Youth sports can mirror the sense of community offered by church — to a point, Flanagan said.

• Parents form tight bonds because they spend so much time together, but competition for positions and playing time can strain those relationships.

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More information is emerging on a federal investment in quartz mining in the North Carolina mountains announced without much detail onstage by President Trump.

Why it matters: Sibelco, which operates a quartz mine that is of great importance to the global tech industry in Spruce Pine, said yesterday it could land $56 million in Chips Act funding to advance its work in mining high-purity quartz.

Zoom in: Sibelco referred to the agreement as a letter of intent with the federal government, meaning it is not finalized.

• Sibelco did not comment on whether the money would lead to new jobs in Spruce Pine.

Go deeper

🎸 Tonight's Steve Lacy concert will be the last show at the current Red Hat Amphitheater before it reopens a block away next year. (WRAL)

A jury is deliberating whether Miguel Salguero-Olivares murdered UNC-Chapel Hill student Faith Hedgepeth in 2012. (Daily Tar Heel)

🚌 50 years ago, Raleigh City Schools and Wake County Schools merged into one system. (WUNC)

⛴️ For the second time in less than a month, the state is having to run emergency ferries to the Outer Banks due to damage to N.C.-12. (News & Observer)

Next weekend, after the Halloween sun sets, prepare yourself for the scariest thing of all — the end of daylight saving time.

Why it matters: Nov. 1 marks the start of much earlier sunsets around here.

🎃 Heads up trick-or-treaters: Sunset time is around 6:20pm in the Triangle on Oct. 31.

Yes, but: Sunset doesn't mean immediate darkness. Twilight typically provides another 20-40 minutes of natural light.

🧛🏼‍♀️ The waning gibbous Halloween moon won't rise until later next Saturday evening, leaving would-be vampires without much moonlight.

What's next: Clocks fall back an hour at 2am next Sunday.

• By the end of November, the sun will be setting around 5pm.

Scare someone

It's shaping up to be a beautiful fall weekend in the Triangle. Here's how you can take advantage of it:

🪩 Listen to electronic music at Slingshot Festival of Music today and tomorrow.

🎃 Watch the annual Pumpkin Flotilla cross Bond Lake in Cary at twilight or see the pumpkins relit tomorrow night. There's local music, food and other Halloween activities today.

🧟 Take part in downtown Cary's Zombiepalooza, an annual zombie short film competition with Halloween-themed events in the park today.

🧛 Watch the Carolina Ballet perform "Dracula" today or tomorrow in Raleigh.

🐶 Bring your dog out for Barktoberfest in Durham tomorrow.

🍻 Go to the last Oktoberfest of the season tomorrow at American Tobacco Campus in Durham, put on by Fullsteam Brewery and East of Texas.

💀 Celebrate Día de Muertos on Sunday in downtown Raleigh, hosted by Revista Latina.

📖 Go shopping for printed media at the Zine Machine Fest in downtown Durham on Sunday.

🎡 Make it out to the fairgrounds in Raleigh for the final weekend of the State Fair.

Tell a friend

😵‍💫 Mary Helen is having flashbacks to two 2ams at college bars on Halloweekend.

👻 Zachery is scared to see how much a few bags of candy for trick-or-treaters is going to cost this year.

Thanks to Melissa Oyler for editing this newsletter.