Let's start with TikTok, which has one of the most formidable algorithms, powering one of the most addictive apps of our time.

• It learns what you linger on — not what you "like" — and feeds you more of it at scale.

There's no way to fully turn off TikTok's algorithm, but you can blunt its influence on your feed.

1. 🔎 Ditch the "For You" feed: This is where TikTok flexes its algorithmic muscle, serving up videos it thinks will keep you on the app. Instead, explore the "Following" feed, which only shows you TikToks made by friends or creators you've intentionally chosen.
2. 🛑 Prune your algorithm: If you can't escape it, train it. Be ruthless about flagging videos you don't want to see more of — whether that's incendiary personalities or buckets of content, like politics. Press on a video for a bit, and you'll see an option to tap "Not Interested." Use it!
3. 🌱 Seek out the good stuff: Training works both ways. There's a lot of great content on TikTok. Use the search bar to actively look for the videos you do want to see. That could be "how Congress works," "plant care tips" or "guided meditation."

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Instagram, the visual platform that once revolved around your friends' espresso drinks and vacation photos, now feels packed with influencers you've never met and recommendations you didn't ask for.

Why it matters: Cleaning up your Instagram account redirects you to content from people and posts you actually care about.

Some of your options:

1. ➡️ Quick fix: Switch to the "Following" feed by clicking the Instagram logo at the top of your screen when you open the app. You'll have to toggle to it each time you open the app, but it'll only show you posts from those you follow — the closest you can get to an algorithm-free feed.
2. 🗑️ Gradual cleanup: Start tapping the "…" and hitting "Not Interested" whenever you see a garbage post, whether it's fake news, rage bait or influencers.
3. 👥 Check what you're engaging with: Go to your profile, tap "Following," then "Least Interacted With." You'll see accounts you haven't engaged with in a while, and you can quickly unfollow from there.

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Facebook has shaped political discourse, family dynamics and entire news cycles for years.

• Its algorithm reflects years of your clicks, relationships and habits, so your feed may be showing you a version of the world built from your past.

Why it matters: Facebook doesn't have to be a pit of despair and rage bait. You can reset it.

It's never too late to start — here's how:

1. Snooze and unfollow: Facebook allows you to hide people you follow or "Snooze" their content. (Tap the "..." next to a post you don't enjoy and you'll find a number of options to hide that post, snooze the poster, hide all content from that user or unfollow them altogether.)
2. 🚦 Adjust your preferences: Over the political content? You can dial it back. Go to "Settings & privacy," then "Content preferences," where you can reduce the amount of political and sensitive content in your feed.

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Your X feed is designed to make you emotional.

Why it matters: X's algorithm intentionally pushes posts that spark strong reactions, making your feed feel angrier and more chaotic. AI chatbot Grok makes this worse by frequently surfacing misleading content.

• Understanding that the platform's algorithm rewards posts that spark emotion and engagement can help you stay more vigilant in seeking accuracy or nuance.

💨 The quickest fix: Skip the "For You" page and stick to the "Following" tab.

• But be careful. A recent update made the "Following" tab default to the "most popular" tweets in that category. On a desktop, you can click the small arrow on the "Following" tab and toggle between "popular" and "recent" depending on your preference.

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YouTube is now flooded with engagement bait and AI-generated content — often recycled, repackaged and optimized for clicks.

Why it matters: The more you watch passively, the more the platform assumes you want the same. If you want better recommendations, you have to interrupt the cycle.

Here are ways to clean up your feed:

1. 🚫 Remove, remove, remove: This is YouTube's simplest fix. Click the three dots next to a video and select "Not interested" or "Don't recommend channel." Over time, this trains the algorithm away from content you don't want.
2. ⏸️ Hit pause: You can pause your watch history to prevent your algorithm from recommending anything tied to your past viewings. (Go to "Settings," then "Manage all history," then "Controls." From there, turn off "Include the YouTube videos you watch.")

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Friday

📚 YWRC Book Sale | Browse thousands of books, movies, and media items while supporting programs for girls and young women across Iowa. | 9am–9pm | Iowa State Fairgrounds 4-H Exhibits Building | Free! Open through Monday.

🚒 Touch A Truck | Climb aboard trucks and heavy machinery while meeting superheroes from Avengers of the Knight at this family-friendly event. | 5–7:30pm | Colby Park | Free!

Saturday

🎠 Opening Day at The Heritage Carousel | Celebrate the start of carousel season with rides, live music, face painting, popcorn and family-friendly activities. | 11am–7pm | Union Park | Rides: 50 cents for kids, $1 for adults

🧟 Shaun of the Dead Screening | Watch the cult zombie comedy with special guest Mark Donovan, who played the "Hulking Zombie," plus trivia, prizes, costumes, and a post-film discussion. | 7pm | Fleur Cinema & Café | Tickets: $22

Sunday

🎺 DSM Gamer Symphony Orchestra | Hear live arrangements of iconic video game music from "Mario Bros.," "Halo," "Kingdom Hearts," "Journey," and more. | 4pm | Urbandale High School Performing Arts Center | Free!

Monday

🥞 Breakfast at the Gold Star Museum | Enjoy a free military-style breakfast, live entertainment, a blood drive, and Simon Conway broadcasting live from the museum. | 5am–noon | Iowa Gold Star Military Museum | Free!

🎖️ Highland Memory Gardens Memorial Day Service | Honor veterans with bagpipes, motorcycle tributes, an honor guard, and a dramatic "Avenue of Flags" display. | 9am | Highland Memory Gardens Cemetery | Free!