Jul 18, 2018

10 stages of emotional decline without my family in town for 7 nights

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I have a 1-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old son. I’m busy, constantly. So when my wife told me she was going to stay at the beach with our children for a week after July 4th — thus making me home alone for seven full nights — I acted sad, but I secretly celebrated.

What a mistake.

Stage 1: Work until I pass out for no reason.

The Agenda took July 4th week off. But like a psycho, I came into the office at 5:45 a.m. on July 5th. I created mockups for a new version of our site. I did 2019 projections. I worked until late at night.

Nobody likes the guy who works during holidays because he’s such a hardo.

The only break I took was to eat sushi and pizza for lunch at Whole Foods. Yes, it was an odd combination, but I heard (correctly) that the pizza at Whole Foods is sneaky good.

Tasty za from Whole Foods – but slice to box ratio is kinda funny

Stage 2: Pointless grocery shopping.

No clue what made me walk into Harris Teeter since I planned on eating every meal out. Yes, literally every meal.

I guess I felt like I needed snacks between meals? Cinnamon Toast Crunch at night. Yogurt in the afternoon. No clue on the bread. And who the hell buys Chobani greek yogurt shakes? That’s just weird.

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Stage 3: Instagram overload.

I give myself a B+ at Instagram. Katie is an A+. But I’m always looking to improve. So I ordered the burger at Foxcroft Wine Co because I’m always taste-testing burgers for potential updates to my definitive best burger list.

I couldn’t get the natural light right, so I opened a bunch of doors at Foxcroft. Then I stacked my burgers as about 7 people watched and judged me as an instagrammer who was trying too hard (correctly).

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Stage 4: Believing I’m still 22 years old.

Did I really need a bubble tea vodka slushy at Seoul Food?

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Stage 5: Binge viewing.

I normally never watch TV. Just can’t find time.

Over the course of seven days, I watched 22 episodes of Billions. OMG.

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Very entertaining, via Facebook

Stage 6: Reflective bourbon drinking.

Maybe it was too many episodes of Billions, but I poured myself a Bulleit bourbon. I sat on my back porch. I started to reflect on my life. Took a sip. Then I coughed because I wasn’t manly enough to handle it.

Why am I drinking bourbon alone? Poured it out in the sink. Went back to watching Billions.

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Stage 7: Pilgrimage to Panda.

I love the Panda Express. I tried to throw my 30th birthday party there, but my wife said no.

My order? Orange Chicken and Kung Pao Chicken with fried rice. I ate 85% of it even though I could have eaten it all. Why? Because the only thing better than warm Panda Express for dinner is cold Panda Express for breakfast.

I took a selfie and posted it to Instagram. Maybe it was a cry for help.

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Stage 8: Happy hour meetings, without limits.

I don’t normally do happy hour meetings. But I set up a meeting at Suffolk Punch at 4:30 p.m.

About an hour into the meeting I realized, wait, I have no real responsibilities. Why not have just one more beer? Next thing I know, my neighbor is driving me home at 10 p.m. and I had to take a Lyft-of-shame to Suffolk Punch the following morning.

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Stage 9: Viewing family photos while playing Counting Crows Spotify channel on my Airpods.

Slightly hungover, I sipped my Chobani Greek yogurt shake and looked at photos of my children on my phone.

Rock bottom.

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Stage 10: Family is finally home!!!

My son is tan! My daughter has two more teeth!

My 3-year-old gave me a hug. He then lifted his head up to say “I missed you, Daddy” and gave me a big, sloppy mouth kiss. I loved it. I almost cried. Then my wife says, “Yeah, we kinda practiced that, go get all the stuff out of the car.”

Well honey, when you were away I kinda practiced being an Instagram star.

Shooters shoot. Volume ⬆ #inmyfeelingschallenge 🎥: @lindseylpeterson 1 take, nbd.

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